Yes the total solar eclipse lasts a mere few minutes but when I asked dpreview photographers they said they meant that total lunar eclipses are much darker and harder to achieve autofocus on and require higher ISO and longer shutter speeds.
The outer parts of the corona require similar or even longer exposure to capture than the umbral shadow on the Moon. Again, what makes total solar eclipses tricky is the enormous range of exposures needed to capture all of it, under extreme time pressure, while at the same time not forgetting the most important part which is to actually see it with your own eyes.
Regarding autofocus... don't. It can fail during total solar eclipses too. Use manual. Focus on a distant object before the totality and lock it, or adjust with live preview.
"Is being in the middle of the totality zone the best place to be for getting the best experience (both visually and photographically)?"
I very much think so. Both because totality lasts longer closer to the centerline, and also for the symmetry. You will see the entire shape of the shadow in the sky, and areas outside the totality will glow all around the horizon. The only real perk of being very close to the edge of the shadow is to have a longer-lasting diamond ring and Bailey's Beads effect. But I think seeing the corona for more time and having the shadow completely surround you is a lot better.
It's also not critical to be exactly on the centerline, should a better location a short distance away be more suitable. The duration of totality decreases very slowly with distance from the centerline at first and you can move many kilometers from it and lose only a few seconds. The totality duration changes most rapidly near the edges of the path.
"What time did it happen and would it have been visible here in NY too if it had not been cloudy?"*
The Moon did not pass in front of Mars as seen from New York City, but it was very close (just south of the occultation path.) If weather had permitted then you would have seen the Moon graze just above of Mars in the sky, just a few arcminutes separating them.
The disappearance and reappearance times depend on location. Later, farther east. For me the disappearance happened at 6:53 PST. For you, closest approach was around 11:00pm local time.
You can predict future occultations using the free software Occult. It also does solar and lunar eclipses, occultations of stars by asteroids, moons of the giant planets passing in front of or casting shadows on each other, and so on.
Thanks, I have a plan and maybe you could tell me if this is a good one. I'm going to bring two cameras and two tripods. The two cameras will be the Nikon P900 at 2000mm to capture solar prominences and an Olympus EM10 Mk2 for the corona at 600mm. The Olympus has a larger sensor and more DR so better for the corona and a lower focal length (I assume 600mm will frame the entire corona?) The Nikon will be able to zoom in more to capture the prominences (I've seen pictures taken of them with this camera from the August 2017 total solar eclipse.) Do you think I might need a tracking mount for either (or both) of these (especially for the one at 2000mm?) Based on experimentation I've found that I can do up to 1 second exposures at 2000mm and 2 seconds at 600mm without tracking. For totality no solar filter is necessary is it (for viewing or photography)? I'm bringing a couple along for safety's sake but I think unfiltered looks the best during totality.
It sounds like for focusing you're in favor of using hyperfocal distances and focus lock, something I like to do, so it works for me

I usually focus on something 200 ft or farther away.
Thanks I'm going to download Occult. I think the Mars occultations are the most spectacular, especially because of the contrast between the ruddy Mars and the whitish Moon. The last one was in September 2020, so they do happen every 26 months or so and the next one is in January 2025, though I don't know if that will be a close approach or an occultation here. Do these always happen when Mars is at or near its closest approach to us? Did you have a certain photographic setting you used that was able to encompass the wide DR between the Moon and Mars (focal length, shutter speed, f-ratio, ISO), Wat? The next time it happens I want to use the P900 at 2000mm to see if I can expose both well enough to get crater detail on the moon plus that dark streak (it's a canyon I think?) in the middle of Mars, which I've seen other P900 photographers get when they capture Mars.
I found this description I found absolutely spectacular:
https://www.space.com/mars-at-oppositio ... ec-07-2022
it was closest at 10:56 pm
Mars was one minute south of the southern edge of the moon
For places like Huntsville, Knoxville, Philadelphia and New York, Mars will come to within just 1 arc minute of the moon's limb; they'll almost seem to touch each other. To the naked eye, Mars will look like an amber jewel on the bottom edge of the moon. From Boston the gap between Mars and the moon's limb is even smaller: just 0.6 arc minute, roughly equal to the apparent width of two Mars diameters!
Where to see the moon eclipse Mars
As a bonus, those who are located north and west of a line running roughly from Piedras Negras, Mexico to Louisville, Kentucky to Seabrook, New Hampshire will see the moon occult Mars. Refer to the US map. Those positioned south and east of this line, however, will see the moon miss the planet entirely, barely passing just above it (called an appulse).
But for an observer fortuitously positioned exactly on, or immediately adjacent to that line — it's actually a narrow path about 21 miles (34 km) wide — the lower limb of the moon will appear to literally graze Mars as it passes by.
For those fortuitously situated along the northern edge of the path, the planet's dazzling topaz disk may appear to disappear completely, then reappear intermittently in lunar valleys. In contrast, along the southern edge of the path, Mars' northern edge will only briefly touch the limb of the moon.
Among towns and cities located within the path are Morgantown, WV; Scranton, PA; Hudson, NY; Northampton, MA; Lowell, MA and Seabrook, NH. Refer to the Mars occultation graze path maps.
Unlike a star which is a pinpoint of light and would disappear and reappear in an instant, Mars appears as a small disk in telescopes; owing to its relatively large angular size (17.2 arc seconds in diameter), the occultation will occur at a rather "leisurely" pace. So the disappearance of Mars behind the moon's bright limb for most places, will take anywhere from about 40 seconds to almost a minute (or even longer where the moon's limb approaches it at a slant).
A separation of one arc minute at NY is pretty close, I think I could have framed both Mars and the Moon inside 2000mm!