If the evolutionary history of life on Earth is representative of the evolution of life in general, then intelligence is much more rare. But
it is unsafe to assume that the example set by Earth is typical. Evolutionary dynamics are complicated, and are driven by internal factors just as much as external ones. Our understanding of these dynamics is not as good, let alone trying to predict them elsewhere. Maybe intelligence generally develops quickly, and Earth is an outlier. (I doubt it, at any rate.)
Also, if most life evolves around M type stars instead of G type stars, does that mean that evolution would proceed even more slowly?
I think the same problem applies. I would be strongly hesitant to conclude anything about evolutionary rates from a single parameter such as the star's mass.
Do you think that at the apex (or final stages) of evolution it could ever be possible for an organism to evolve from a material creature to a creature made entirely of energy?
Evolution has no inherent conclusion!

The game is never over and there are no winners. There are only those who have not yet lost. It might be possible for intelligent creatures like ourselves to upload our minds to a digital environment to live forever, but the principles of selection would still apply.
Anyway, I think creatures made of energy are pretty unlikely.
Energy is a term that often gets thrown around in a mystical woo sort of way, while in physics it has a specific meaning. It is a quantity associated with change (e.g. kinetic energy describes how quickly a mass is changing position), or the potential to cause change (e.g. gravitational potential energy describes how a mass will move due to gravity, if it were to be placed at that position), and the energy is defined such that it is conserved even when transformed from one kind to another. Neither of those examples are useful as a definition for life "purely as energy" because they require the presence of matter in some form. Even if we think of a creature made of electrical energy, that energy is associated with the locations of charged particles.
One example of energy I can think of that could work is light, as "radiant energy". I could even conceive of an entity meeting a working definition of "alive" being made up purely of photons, in such a way that those photons interact with each other (photons actually attract one another
very slightly, because although they are massless they do have momentum, and momentum produces gravity). Maybe a creature of light could exist such that those interactions carry information and that information evolves with time, in a similar manner as the
Conway's Game of Life. The biggest problem with this idea is that the interactions are weak to the point of absurdity -- such a creature would never arise naturally, but need to be created deliberately with the utmost care.
Would we even be able to recognize it as being "alive"? Fire as an example, fills in many of the check marks of life- yet we do not consider it alive.
Right, this is one of the most important questions in astrobiology.
Defining life is difficult because life itself is a classification we impose on a universe which does not separate things into neat little bins for us. There is no clear-cut boundary between living and nonliving, instead it is a matter of degree.
Early on people tried defining life by starting with the more obvious characteristics. It moves! It grows! It adapts! It consumes resources! It reproduces! It responds to stimuli! It is made of basic units (cellular)!
Yet there are examples of things which most everyone agrees are not alive that have some of these properties, and there are things that most people agree are alive that lack them. Crystals grow, and rocks can move, but they're not alive. Lots of living things can be sessile, and tardigrades can fail to grow or respond to stimuli. Fire moves, grows, consumes resources, and arguably responds to certain stimulus. Alive? And what of viruses?
So scientists have built up some more rigorous, and better yet,
more general "working" definitions for life.
Life propagates its own information via the principles of selection. There is no reference to what it is made of or how it lives! All it says is that the thing persists, and that persistence happens by a particular process -- that the information is subject to change from one generation to the next, and particular changes can be selected for or against by certain pressures, whether by the environment or internally.
Crystals fail the definition because they don't evolve by this mechanism. They do not contains patterns of information which are selected for or against and propagated from one generation to the next. Fire fails for the same reason. It is simply a combustion reaction. The quality of the fire does not arise from information contained previously in the fire, but simply by the factors in the environment. Viruses? They're still tough to classify! They're about as lifelike as non-life gets, or as non-living as life gets.
Other instances of life in the universe may be very strange and unlike anything we've imagined... and people have imagined quite a lot. What we find, if and when we find it, could force us to totally rework what we think we know and reformulate our definitions. There is also a principle that says that in order to find something, you must have some notion of what you are searching for. How do you find life if you can't recognize it? And in that sense we could be missing a lot without knowing it, although we can do the best we can with what we do know.